How can i change my husband?

He loves to make messes...ill buy some organizal tools..ie)shelving...on the way home I'm looking forward to going out the the "norm" putting them together...but as soon as we get home he ripps the box open empties out the contents puts said unit together..with his interestst in mind and screws off...leaving a big mess and a half assed project for me to deal with...every frickin time!!..it dosent matter what it is..he will bring the groceries in put the meat away and say "meh" to anything else..he dosent work..I do everything with the kids and the house..our yard is full of his "projects"...he'll dissapear for hours to do soemthing that takes a half an hour...he's a terrible husband and a "alright" father..will he ever change?