Are there dating sites for people who aren't perfect?

EHarmony will turn u away if you've ever made mistakes, or have an illness. What about the rest of us?? I have depression with a whopping dose of anxiety on th eside, but i'm still normal.....I want a family, kids, a house....an dI want to be a great mother.....but all these dating companies make you feel bad about yourself. for example, I had a self-medicating issue before, and i have been arrested.....but I was young and stupid! I also ruined my credit because i'm so depressed....but that doesn't mean I don't want love!!!! And I feel like they should have a site where the depressed can meet other depressed people....because it's such a large, widespread disease......I bet there is a man out there, too shy to even ask this question because of his depression, lol...ya know what i'm saying guys??? Please, any and all advise!!!