I feel ignored,neglected and i'm hurt...........?

You seem to be very naive and maybe insecure. I'm not trying to bring you down or call names but you've been with this guy for 5 months and as much as you like him it seems that its obvious its not working. If he can't be responsible enough to pay his bills, I think that shows he's definitely not a guy that has alot going for him nor does it seem he's on the right track right now so wanting a serious relationship with him is probably not going to happen. I hope everything works out to where you become happy and realize that every relationship will not owrk and you have to move on until you find a guy that will make you happy.